Change????

How come people have to change? I mean I know the simple answer, which is because we're human and we change with age and all that good stuff, but seriously why do we need to change? In the end is the simple answer really the only explanation or is there more to it than that? When a person changes is it usually for the best or do they turn rotten? Does a person turn ignorant with change, spoil and freeze? If so how does someone change out of that stage and turn back to who they were?


I know I have changed and I did not mean to. With change is it usually normal for someone to forget how to love someone in the way that they feel most loved? Do they usually get to the point where they don't know where to turn for answers? I do know one thing is for sure, if someone is to try and help them criticism is not a helpful thing. It does not make anyone feel good about themselves or who they have become. At some point they realize they have changed and realize that they need to go back to the way they were.