Society

Let me paint you a picture for a moment. Picture this beautiful women, blonde hair, slender, relatively good complexion. She is on a magazine cover. She has a big smile on her face and she is like you and me. She isn't perfect she has smile lines, her arms aren't the size of twigs they are maybe more like a 2X4 but yet still very beautiful none the less. So what are you thinking, okay that's like any other girl I see on a magazine cover. Well that is true but now let me tell you something, this beautiful woman was photo shopped so she didn't have as noticeable smile lines, her arms were the size of twigs, and she looked so very pale. Does anyone else see what's wrong with this picture? Society today has brain washed us into thinking beauty is only a matter of what's on the outside and if you can fit into a mold of size 0. I am sorry to tell you that I have seen some people who are size 0-2 and trust me they are not beautiful. They look as if they haven't eaten in months, and you're afraid to even touch them of fear of them breaking. On the flip side I have seen some very beautiful women who do not fit into this mold and who may be in the high teens even twenties in pants size. They are beautiful and that's because they are happy and they don't think of themselves as better than you. Society needs to start looking at what people have to offer on the inside instead of what physical gratification they get by looking at someone. They wonder why there is so much divorce in our county well it's because people want that instant gratification. Our society makes people feel insignificant, and worthless. People get married for someone's looks or how someone is sexually. When you hear a newly married couple talk about what drew them to each other most likely their first few responses will go on how they look, and how they make them feel. Rarely is it because oh the person has a great personality or that person makes them laugh and smile.

Neighbors

So When we first moved into our home it was so exciting. I knew some of my neighbors and I thought that would make things a lot easier. Well I am starting to think differently. We have this neighbor that I knew through high school. She was not a student nor was she a close friend. She was actually my teacher. So Low and behold, who would have thought we would have an interesting time living here. It all started when we first moved in. She came over and she said you do not have as much stuff to move in as the previous owners. Okay so that was fine right, she is just making conversation. Then she always sees us when we are outside so is she spying or is it by coincidence? Not only that but my husband was outside one day trimming our tree out front and she came outside and asked if he wanted a ladder. Okay, that is nice of her to do so. She came out to me one day and said she noticed that I was home all week and my husband has not been home. She asked why that was. Well someone has to rake in the cash right? Today is the day that I think it might be a little weird. I look out side and you will not guess what I notice. I notice someone walking away from our house, more or less our garage. I was wondering who that was, and you will never guess, it was our neighbor. I don't want to know why she was over here but it was just a little strange. So when do you think a neighbor gets to be too neighborly?

Truth, Dare or Repeat?

How many people does it take to understand what I am saying? So lets go to this instance where I had to call people to confirm reservations. So I called this person up and this younger gentlemen answered the phone. I said this is Donita calling from Sparta Super 8 and I am here to confirm your reservation for this day at this rate in this room. He said where? Who? I stated again, This is Donita calling from Sparta Super 8 to confirm your reservations. He said Sparta? I said yes Sparta Super 8. He said oh, hold on I'll get so and so. So another gentlemen got on the phone, I am assuming it was his dad, and he said who is this? So I ended up repeating myself three more times for this guy and he said oh wait one minute while I get my wife. So she came on the phone and who would have guessed it, I had to repeat myself only once for her. But then twenty minutes later I finally got the answer I needed which should have only taken 5 minutes. That night was an interesting evening. You can only imagine the rest of my night, I still had about 5 hours left to work that evening.

talking, who needs it?

So I have been thinking. Is it better to share what is on your mind or just keep it to yourself and look like the good guy? People always say I want to know what is on your mind but do they really? Do they really care what you think or do they just want to look like a good guy and act like they care? Conversations lately just seem to be over rated to me. Sad to say but I feel as though i have too many opinions that people don't really care to hear. Either I'm too mean or I'm just too opinionated. Oh well things happen to every person on this earth. I just need to get over it and call it good.

Love!!

Love, what is it? Is it a feeling, an emotion, an expression? How can love really be defined? According to dictionary.com the definition of love is "a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person." Another definition from that same site is "to need or require; benefit greatly from." So another question I have is can you Love someone so much that you suffocate someone? Not literally speaking but meaning you do not let them spread their own wings and experience life? Something else that was on my mind is this, is it possible to be so in love with someone and be blinded to the hurt you cause them? Love is a tricky thing. It can be a blessing to some but harmful to others, in my opinion I guess.

Change????

How come people have to change? I mean I know the simple answer, which is because we're human and we change with age and all that good stuff, but seriously why do we need to change? In the end is the simple answer really the only explanation or is there more to it than that? When a person changes is it usually for the best or do they turn rotten? Does a person turn ignorant with change, spoil and freeze? If so how does someone change out of that stage and turn back to who they were?


I know I have changed and I did not mean to. With change is it usually normal for someone to forget how to love someone in the way that they feel most loved? Do they usually get to the point where they don't know where to turn for answers? I do know one thing is for sure, if someone is to try and help them criticism is not a helpful thing. It does not make anyone feel good about themselves or who they have become. At some point they realize they have changed and realize that they need to go back to the way they were.

M.I.A.

I have two theories, one is either my bra had grown feet and walked away, or two my bra was stolen in the line of duty. I am better the more realistic one is the stolen in the line of duty. So now my question is why would someone want to steal a bra that was designed only for my body type? You would think that once they figured out that it was a bra, they would return the item back to where it was originally supposed to go. I mean most of the people in my apartment building are either too big or too small to fit into the bra that i had ordered. So if anyone has seen my bra please return it, I really need it for a wedding that I am in and would really like to have it back.